Arik Raymond's Blog (ARB) MY RELATIONSHIP: He Says I'm Not Educated.

 

Hello Arik, please I will like to get an advice because I seriously do not know what to do with my life at the moment. I've been dating a guy from my secondary school days, then he was my classmate, but he later furthered his education while I didn't because I lost my dad in the process and my mum couldnt bear the burden of sending us to school. We are three, two girls and a boy, I'm the eldest and also the first daughter. This guy is familiar with my household, and everybody loves him in my family because they see him as someone who helps me educationally by bringing me textbooks and also coming to our house so we can do any given assignment together.
Asides assignment, we also do some other play which I believe you know what I mean. We both left secondary school and this guy proceeds with his education to study accounting in one of the state university. He do come home during holidays, and we do see. He tells me how much he loves me and I do the same to. He impregnated me, and when i told him, he said he isnt ready for that, that I should find a way to get rid of it, moreso he's not even sure if he owns the pregnancy. Ever since then, if i try to call him, je wont pick up, if i use another phone or a private number, once he hears my voice, he hangs up. I had no choice than to get rid of the innocent baby in my womb with my younger brother waec fee. We continued our relationship after which i told him about the termination. We dated for 9 years 7months before this guy called it a quit, saying that I'm not educated now he works in a big organization as their accountant and he's going to get married soon, it's not going to be nice of him not to have someone presentable by now, so therefore he doesnt want to waste my time, he needs to search for his missing rib, while i search for mine.
Arik it was as if the world was coming to an end, i feel like killing myself. I asked him if i did anything wrong, he said no, just that I'm not educated. Arik do i sound or appear as someone who is not educated because I'm tired of this shock.

Hmmm! Dear Arik Raymond Blog readers, help a friend out. To me she doesnt sound like she's not educated but i think the earlier she face the heartbreak reality, the better. Oh Yes! it's hard to face but this guy just said it's over so be it, you can't force love my dear, just pray to God to tile the floor he took off his mat, ask God for a better man and you shall get. But to be honest with you, you made a big mistake by spending your brothers WAEC Fee and also doing an Abortion... my dear it's a two count charge on you. That's by gone. call a MUA, get a nice make up on, and I will be pleased to help you post it on for someone who might be interested in you, just for you to shake your past sad life off....