The news of a young mother of two Aderonke who died as a result of
domestic violence has speculated round the Web. It's a saddening story
because of her 4years and 6years old kids who are now orphans.
Information gathered, states that she was involved in a fight with her
husband which led to her death. The man in question now is no where to
be found as he disappeared into thin air with her phone switched off,
locking the children with their dead mother in house.
#SoPainful.
But truth must be told. Would this have happened this way if she hadn't
gotten married to this animal? No! I guess. I still can't figure out
the way some of our ladies do reason. To me it's so annoying. Before
getting married to someone, you would have seen the type of person he
is, the type of lifestyle he lives and I guess you're OK by it that's
why you moved on to the next stage with him which is MARRIAGE. Take for
instance, you met a guy in a club drinking heavily, smoking weed or on
some sort of drugs. He asked you out, you accepted because he's got some
designers on, spends heavily and beautiful ladies around him. Bravo!
You made the right decision (you think). While dating, he flirts around,
comes in at ungodly hours of the day. Which work is he doing, where
does he work, what keeps him late? Oh he's a yahoo boy, he hangs out
with friends that's why he comes in late. To you it's nothing. He's
living life (Congrat to you and your thought. You married an
irresponsible man and you want happiness in the marriage? Don't worry
you would see it in Nollywood movie). He talks to you like nobody even
in public. He hits you once, twice, thrice, he may or may not apologise.
(Your acceptance, it's a mistake. Madame well done). Eventually, you
both got married to each other, the same goes on, you didn't run for
your life. You bore him kids, it continued, you didn't quit the
marriage. (Oh my bad, I've forgotten the word of God which says "For
better for worse". No wonder you're still in the marriage. But have you
forgotten it's this same God that says "If a finger hurts you, CUT it
off. I really do not like talking much about religion cos I know less
about it.
