Arik Raymond's Blog (ARB) MY RELATIONSHIP - WHY GUYS CHEAT

 

Dear lovely family of Arik Raymond's blog, you're welcome to another episode of MY RELATIONSHIP. Our topic for this week on MY RELATIONSHIP is, WHY DO GUYS CHEAT.                                     At first I find it difficult to understand the reason why guys cheat since a lady is a lady, the lady you're dating or married to has boobs and a hole, the one you're looking for out there has two boobs and also a hole in between her legs, no gold coated so why the CHEATING act? If you don't love who she is then why ask her out, why get married to her since she's not your taste? I tried getting answers to these questions I asked myself, but didn't get any. I went on a research and I got answers.

The lady in question is mostly the basic reason why a guy cheat.
How, why?

ATTITUDE

Some ladies are so full of pretence, the attitude you see in them before marriage atimes will be different from what you see when you get married to them. WHY? Some were pretending all through the courtship days, they want to get their old age in someone's house, so they borrow someone else's character while courting and show you their real self when in your house. Some have a change in attitude as a result of bad company. They get influenced by life destroyers, someone who do not have a perfect or a semi-perfect life, someone who is jealous about their relationship or marriage with the guy in question and wants it ruined; So they try to input some bad attitude into you and you get carried away by it, not thinking twice. Your lover boy/husband who truly loves you and do not want to send you packing after trying so many things to put sense into you but to no avail will definitely CHEAT. One of my mothers tenant has these naughty attitude, I was told she keeps bringing so many guys into the house, they keep signing attendance on her and leave. WHY? Because of her BAD attitude. The agent who brought her in one day saw me with my mum and asked me to help settle a quarrel between herself and my mother asking me to consider it like it's a quarrel between my wife and my mother. I settled it, but the bad attitude is in her, she can't change. Which is part of the reason why guys USE and DUMP her. So tell me if she was able to be deceitful with her character and find herself in a guys house, what do you think the guy will do to save his life from her bad attitude? It's either he sends her packing, he leaves the house for her and ofcourse definitely get a better lady because he deserves to be happy. That happiness you call CHEATING. But to be candid you caused it as a lady. If you do not perform your rites as a wife or wife to be by taking care of the house and doing some other things expected of a woman to do, my dear he will see someone better out there who will love and treat him right; taking note of the ratio of single ladies to guys. After marriage you make the club your home because you want to catch fun. BRAVO! Good of you. I'll suggest the next time you go clubbing should be when you're pregnant or with your two months old baby, and when asked why, you say because you deserve to be happy. Bull shit! Married women are NOT really advised to go clubbing or partying without their mans consent. Not all guys love their women clubbing or partying all the time when she should be making good use of her time and be about how to make success in the marriage or relationship. Every guy wants an intelligent lady who will be of a great support, not one who will be about knowing how to just spend without thinking and working on how to make money with her man. Only an unreasonable guy will cheat on such lady.

LIES

Guys can't and won't tolerate a lady who is full of lies, so they get a truthful woman out there which you will call CHEATING ON ME.

 LOVE MAKING

If you're a lady and you don't give your man or hardly give him that other food, my dear, he will get it elsewhere which is what you call CHEATING. But for goodness sake, why are you lovers when you can't enjoy each other? If you know you don't like sex and don't want to have it then W.T.H are you doing in a relationship, why don't you join the CONVENT. Yeah it is written in the bible "For Better, or Worse"... My dear, I'm sorry to say, why accept the worse when you can settle for better? Bishop Oyedepo of Winners Chapel and Living Faith church said there's nothing like for better or worse, it is "For Better, For Better". I was against the statement when i heard it, but on the second note, I see sense in it. It can only be "For Better, or Better" in a relationship or marriage when it comes to LOVE MAKING. In the sense that if you guys make love while dating, then you will find out each others sexual capacity, if he's someone you can cope with, then good for you, if she's not someone you can cope with, good for her; settle your matter before it leads to somewhere you blame yourself for. Sex makes guys CHEAT.

 STATURE

The person he saw and love, was a slim sexy lady; the person he's seeing at home after marriage is an obesity who ties wrapper and crash on their 6 x 6 matrimonial bed, taking more than half space of the bed.  Oh My Goodness! This is a What Tha F Bundle. Seeing someone different after marriage will definitely make him CHEAT, cause what he saw and loved is different from what he's seeing now. If he wants a thick lady he will definitely go for her instead of choosing you. He chose you cos he saw something in you, and you damaged that thing intentionally. WHY? Oh I'm a married woman with his kid that's why I'm fat. That's not an excuse, I've seen so many mothers looking just the way they were after 50 years of marriage, so what's the excuse all about?

 AGGRESSION

An aggressive woman makes a man sick and chases him to get another sane woman out there. If you don't give him peace of mind, and you see him with another woman, i'm sorry you chased him out. To think of the fact that men die earlier than women is to think of what they go through. Struggling to make ends meet and make the family happy, and to come back facing a hell of a girlfriend or wife is crazy. He will definitely want to find happiness elsewhere which you will call CHEATING. Unfortunately you chased him out. Do you know Guys should be treated like babies? Well that's why they came out of you women. Hmmm! This a topic for another day.

Ladies try to make amendment if you do any of these above listed reasons that makes a man cheat inother to keep your man.

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